Journey To Sara

Hello Everyone! Welcome to our Blog! I'm Gina & my hubby is Philip. We have 3 bio children and we are thrilled to be in our first adoption journey to Ukraine to find our little Sara. I truly believe this is a call from God and look forward to traveling with HIM on our side. We feel very grateful to be given the honour of adopting a child into our family. It has been simply amazing!! Please enjoy as you join us on our journey to Sara.......

Thursday, June 29, 2006

Our Sara was baptized!

Greetings to all!!
Our daughter Sara was just recently baptized. We are Roman Catholic. She was baptized on June 11th at 10:30 am. It was a beautiful sunny day. A few days before the baptism I tried to explain to Sara what was going to happen at the church the following Sunday. One week before her baptism, I took her to church mass. She did very well. She didn't misbehave. She just played with her things alittle and checked out the song books. After mass I hung around a bit and brought her on the alter to show her around and familiarize herself with everything. I showed her where she would be baptized. I explained to her that this is where Father Tad would pour water on her head and ...wouldn't that be fun!...etc. etc. For the rest of the week I would bring it up so she wouldn't feel uncomfortable on her special day.
About 2 weeks before the special day, Sara and I and her God-mother (our good friend Linda) went shopping together in the city. Our custom is that whomever are to become the God-parents, purchase the white outfit to be worn on the child's special day. Linda wanted to make sure the dress would fit Sara properly. We had a very nice day together. Sara just loved trying on the beautiful white dress and acessories. We actually chose the first dress she tried on! She looked so beautiful. Afterwards we went to Tim Hortons for a coffee and snack. Sara ended up falling asleep on our way home. She had missed her afternoon nap and was exhausted afterwards. She is a good sleeper and sleeps for 2 hours in the afternoon. At night she goes to sleep at about 9-9:30 pm and wakes up around 8:30-9:00am.

Sara's Special Day
We woke up around 7-7:30am and got ready before waking up Sara. After she woke up she had a bowl of Honey-Nut cheerios and milk. When she was almost done her God-parents (Linda & Ralph) arrived with their 2 beautiful girls. They are 3 and 4 yrs. Sara enjoys playing with them when we visit each other. When Sara has had enough of her cheerios we all head off to Sara's bedroom with cameras in hand. I'm clicking away with camera as Linda gets Sara dressed in her white dress, complete with the beautiful gold necklace that Sara's God-parents gave to her that morning. She was loving every minute of her getting dressed. She is such a girly-girl! Before going off too church (10 minutes away) I did a few last minute things for the celebration afterwards. We had the celebration in our basement that was recently renovated. There was alot of preparations this past week. Thank God for my mother and sister's help. My mom was at our place all day the day before and my sister came a few days before. There were alot of people invited. There were at least 12 children and most of them close to Sara's age. We hired caterers to do a buffet and stay to serve it.
When we arrived at the church we sat right up at the front and Sara was enjoying the mass. Especially when the choir sang and everyone joined in. She was going back and forth between my arms and Philip's arms or she would amuse herself with her brothers and sister behind us. The time finally came when we went up to the alter for Sara to actually have holy water poured on her head. Everything was fine until Philip started to lower her head down. Her face was facing the ceiling. This is the way it is done for infants. I think this caught her off guard a little and she struggled and whimpered alittle before Ralph quickly helped and the water was on her head in a blink of an eye. I wasn't expecting it to be that way or I would have told Sara exactly what was going to happen. I thought a stool was going to be used, which is what is used for older children. Next thing you know the mass was over and Sara was enjoying everyone taking pictures. We had a great celebration and Sara thoroughly enjoyed herself. She just figured that she was getting another birthday party! She was always referring to it as her birthday. We video taped the whole time she opened her gifts. She was being so good. She would wait for mamma to at least read who the gift was from before opening each gift. After opening the gift she would very happily say,"Thank-coo", followed by an attempt to say the persons name. Before and after that she was running around playing with the other children. Once and awhile she would come running to Philip and I for a hug and our attention. Almost like she was touching-base with us. I was amazed at how well she did with such a large crowd of people! I was very proud of her. She really had a good time that day. That's all that really counted.
Our bonding and attachment is coming along quite nicely. About 2 & 1/2 weeks ago Sara started to climb onto my lap and say "mamma....chair" and pointing to the rocking chair in her room. This is when I am putting her to sleep. Before this she would quickly want me to put her in bed and not rock her at all. I would then have to sit on the end of the bed or rocking chair and wait for her to fall asleep while she tossed & turned like crazy! This went on for at least 1/2 an hour every time she had to fall asleep. If I tried to leave, she would sit up and cry for me. Now I'm at the point where I rock her in the rocking chair and she sleepily asks,"mamma....bed", when she is just about to fall asleep. I put her down and I leave with no problem.
Sara is coming to me often to be held or to play with her, which I never refuse. What I find really funny is that when she is calling me to get my attention and I don't answer her right away, she screams,"mamma! mamma! coo-coo! It sounds really cute! We have also accidently come accross this game that only me and Sara play with each other. We were joking around one day with her bowl of cut-up oranges. She would say "oranges.....garbage!" and she would laugh and giggle at the silly face I would give her. Next thing you she was saying, "Nastya......garbage!". I would give this silly shocked look of surprise and scream really loud," Nyetoo! Sara moy reebyonik! Ya tybya lublu, Sara!" (No-way! Sara is my baby! I love you, Sara!) She seems to really love this and we have alot of fun playing this game. She will now scream at the top of her lungs, "Nastya(or sometimes Sara)....garbage! and I will answer, screaming like I'm announcing the love I have for her to the whole world. She also pretends to pout when she wants me to hug her and kiss her all over her face. She then motions for me to do the same (pout) and then she kisses my face all over. We are still enjoying applying cream to each others faces, arms and hands or brushing each others hair. She is also letting me hand feed her most of the time and often wants to sit on my lap while feeding her. She also having a great time with Anthony Marina and Rafael. She loves to spend time with her big brother Anthony(15 yrs old) who loves to shower her with attention. She loves it when Anthony brings her for rides on the Lawn tractor. She enjoys doing girly stuff with Marina and has often gotten into her make-up (lipstick especially). Marina got upset with her and Sara has now learned to ask,"Sara have it?... pease. Well after that you simply can't say no! She loves playing and being silly with her 8 yr old brother Rafael. They occasionally have squables but is no big deal. At the end of the day they always hug and kiss. She adores her grandama & grandpa and autie Gio-Gio, uncle Silvo and her little cousin Samantha. Samantha is right next door and they are always wanting to visit with each other. Well I guess that it for now. I hope you's all enjoyed reading!!
Ciao for now!

Tuesday, June 06, 2006

Continuation of May updates

Hello, I'm back again to give you all more updates.
Wed. May 17th
Today we went to the city to visit with the pediatrician. We saw Dr. A. Simone in Mississauga, Ontario. I explained the best I could to Sara that we were going to a visit with a doctor. She quickly said, nyet. I told her that he would look in her ears, mouth and eyes. I said he was a nice doctor and he wouldn't be giving her needles today. She seemed to relax after that. Sara did very well. She was alittle shy and cooperated. She was weighed, measured for her height. The nurse looked into her ears, eyes, mouth etc. We talked about her history and the immunizations. We were told that she was doing quite well and was at an average level for a 3 yr old. It was recommended that we have all her immunizations done again and he also added on a few other things to check for in her blood work. He also stressed that it was very important to work on attachment & bonding because of her age. Absolutely no daycare or classes of any sort. It was important that I stay with her all the time and do everything for her. Nobody else can do anything for her expect me and Philip for the next 6 months. On our way home we sang "Old McDonalds". Sara loves this song and tries to sing along.
Thurs. May 18th
Today my sister and I went to apply for Sara health card and social insurance number. I brought Sara of course and she brought her daughter Samantha. Sara and my niece love to play with each other, even though Samantha is only14 months old and Sara is almost 3 yrs. It was a terrible weather all day! It wouldn't stop raining. Afterwards we went to a near by mall. I put Sara in a stroller. We went to Sears and I bought her a new carseat. Sara began to regress again while we were shopping. Sara wanted a soother just like Samantha's, so I bought her one and she used it right away. She also started making baby noises and saying she was mamma's baby. On our way home Sara and Samantha both passed out in the back seat right away and they looked so adorable! My sister took some pictures. This evening I also made some phone calls to invite everyone to Sara's up coming birthday party. We are also having our youngest son's communion celebration at the same time. We discussed it with Rafael first to see if he was o.k. with this and agreed to it. All he was worried about was his presents!
Fri. May 19th
Today I had a good day with Sara. She would repeatedly make a sad face with pout and all to receive hugs and kisses from me. Then I ended up kissing her all over. I started from the top of her head, eyes, ears, nose, right down to kissing each and every toe! She just loved it and wanted me to do it again. We also got ready for another weekend at the camper which we have been going to every other weekend. I think this gives her a good break inbetween. Sara seems to really enjoy going to the camper. She really enjoys the outdoors and she loves to sit by the fire eating her "fish crackers" and repeating,"Cot! Cot!" while wrinkling up her nose and holding up her hands.
Fri. May 26th
Today I'm preparing for Sara's birthday party. There will be some friends and family coming tommorow to celebrate with us. I also explained to her the best I could what was happening tommorrow. I said birthday in russian to her and then I sang Happy Birthday to her. I also said party and presents for Sara tommorrow in Russian. Then I told her that she was no longer 2 and she was going to be 3! She understood what I was saying and sang Happy Birthday to herself all day! It was so adorable!
Sat. May27th
Happy Birthday Sara!! She is 3 years old today. She woke up all excited this morning and woke up her sister Marina saying, "Sara 3! 3! while pointing to herself". I explained to her that after her afternoon nap she would have her birthday party. My mom was over helping out alot. We were cooking up a storm. My sister also came to help out too. Sara slept for only an hour. I think she was too excited. I dressed her in a pretty 3/4 length pink flowered dress. Everyone came around 4pm. There were about 4 other little girls around the same age as Sara. She had so much fun playing with them. You didn't seem to mind the crowd at all. A few times Sara asked if she could open her presents and said right after her cake. I purchased Sara and Rafael separate cakes to make it extra special for both of them. Rafael also had everyone sing, "Happy communion to you". I'll never forget the expression on Sara's face when we all sang Happy Birthday to her! She was loving every minute of it and when we all clapped after she blew out the candles she was beaming! Then she finally opened the presents. She was thoroughly enjoying herself. She ripped opened gifts as fast as she could and put some things on along the way! It was great watching her. What a wonderful day!!!!
Tues. May 30th
It's already one month today that we are home with Sara!!! It has literally flown by. Attachment and bonding have been progressing quite nicely. She seems to want to be with me more and more each day. The only thing is that she is taking a long time to fall asleep. She takes at least 1/2 an hour and wants me to sit on her bed until she falls asleep. She is getting along great with her brother Anthony and sister Marina. I've detected alittle jealousy from Rafael so we had a talk with him right away to reassure him that we love him just as much as we ever did. I was expecting it anyways because he was the youngest. They get along great and have even begun alittle bit of sibling disagreements. Its kind of funny to watch and tells me that everyone is getting comfortable with each other.
That's it for today. Until next time.........Take care everyone!